It is strange amongst associates when a break must occur. Sometimes a party has grown a little bit in a direction away from its partner(s). Rather than releasing, the other tries to desparately heal the rupture by clinging on so tightly that the other party is strangled.

All the while the individual claims that it is the one looking out for the associate even as it becomes obvious that this is a lie, and the controlling, domineering nature of the one begins to annihilate the other. Curtailing the will and destroying freedom.

Worse than this is the position of the third party. They can see everything happening. No winners, no losers, just a change, a shift. The partnership broken, the shared time at an end. There are still other connections to be made, other discoveries to be made, other trusts to betray. As if one who cannot be honest to themself even understands what honesty is, especially if things haven't been quite right for awhile and most everyone knew it.

The one thing out of this I could not countenance in the slightest was the attempt to tell the person who they could and could not see and speak to. That they could not go out with their friends, that their own potential was subjugated to the will of another. That they could not live for themselves, that they could only be in servitude and never of service. Never respected and always the second thought. Or even less than that. Tell the light to stop shining why don't you!!

No more! Done!

Brothers and sisters do not abuse one another in this way. Love commands that you not harm the other. We all have had our hearts broken and I suppose if they asked you to...but that is another matter. That you must love the person for who they are, not what you would have them be. That you can only help them become who they are, not conform them to your will. For those that do not come willingly...you kill the free spirit of their true self, and this is the gravest of cruelty. And not borne of love but of fear and then of hate, for ever are the two joined.

No more! It is done.